Self Confidence

Self Confidence: A Key To Living Indeed!

You don’t get to choose how you’re going to die. Or when. You can only decide how you’re going to live. Now.
---Joan Baez

"No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but yourself."  -- Ralph Waldo Emerson, Poet

As you set to read today, I see you getting liberated from every unseen and seen power and forces that has made you to lose your self-confidence and has govern your heart with low self-esteem. Every day, every minute and every moment of every one of us lives, we have the chance to make a choice. A choice to both live indeed and enjoy our lives to the fullest or just while away time on the surface of the Earth till death takes you away.

We all don’t have a chance to decide how we will exit this world but certainly we have the privilege to live a life of our dream by having the self-confidence and right self-esteem to go through the phases of life.

Self-confidence is the very first thing every man needs to take simple actions that makes great undertakings realized and achievable. Self-confidence is definitely an important tool needed by everyone starting from the moment you wake up at every new dawn and step out of your bed. The way you begin your day determines greatly how well you fare through the day. Most of the people that go through the day with lack of self-confidence and with low self-esteem are usually so, because of a negative feeling that they allow to take over their heart and overwhelm them before they launch out for the day. Beginning your day poorly can make you also end your day even worse than the way you started.

For you to live a life of your dream, I mean living indeed! You have got to promise yourself from today, that you have got to start the beginning of the rest of your days on Earth in a bright and shinning way and must end it with happiness and Fulfilment. This is only possible if you feel confident enough to launch out to the world every day, you need to get your self-confidence back if you have lost it. Many are overshadowed by the thought that they can’t achieve anything good and they can’t make a change. The only thought that germinate from their mind is that they will fail and other people are the ones that can succeed. Some have let so many limiting beliefs eat deep into them, and have also allowed this inner critic that tells them they are not good enough for anything and that’s why they refuse to go for whatever they want or desire. Some even say their looks and physique are not so good enough, let me say to you that everything God created is beautiful. You may be short, tall, slim, fat, or however you look, you are just your perfect self. Do you feel you are not as outspoken, intelligent, strong, and even speedy as others you compare yourself to? Hey, look deep into you, you will find out that you have got something others just don’t possess……………….I hear you say really? Take your time you will see you have got what they lack and that’s where your strength lies which makes you somebody relevant in this world. You are beautiful and unique the way you are and nobody is as special as you are because we have just ONE YOU in this world that has never been here or would come after you and that is why you have to get your confidence back and begin to live indeed. It will be painful and a great loss if you live a life below the one you have the capacity to live, remember that you can’t afford to let yourself down and disappoint your creator that took a special time out to create you wonderfully and beautifully.

God loves you and believes in you that you are capable, full of strength, wisdom and everything required to live an awesome life. Don’t lose out in the race of life because of your limiting thought and lack of self-confidence, your creator has given a life time guarantee and assurance that you are perfectly fashioned and fit to achieve anything you set your mind on, you can stand among the kings and great personality because there is deposit of greatness in you, and people from all walks of life will have reason to reckon with you.

I want you learn to love yourself for whom you are, discover, cherish and appreciate who you are. The Bible say ‘love your neighbor as yourself’ you have to love yourself then it is easy for you to love people God has blessed your life with, I mean people in your corners. When people see you truly love yourself they will love you in that measure and not less. One good thing also to know is that you can only attract people you tend to have like minds with, do you want to dine with great people? Think, act, and live great. Do you want people who love, respect and honor you? Honor, love and respect people. Do you want people to support and stand by you? Then go out support and stand by people. We get what we give to life, life may be cruel at times but most times we get what we invest into life and lives of people in it.

Believe in yourself and speak great to yourself, your self-talk plays a lot of role in your daily life. When things seems to be out of control, tell yourself I am still in charge. Choose to be all-time self-confident. Replace all your negative and self-limiting thoughts that makes you lack self-confidence and exhibit low self-esteem, replace them with positive and great thoughts, that every day is purposely designed for you to explore and enjoy life. Love what you already have and do everything you can to develop yourself and make yourself valuable, irresistible and relevant at home, office, gatherings and everywhere. You can make yourself a force to be reckoned with, by staying confident in yourself and developing and growing yourself to be the best you can. From now on, i see you on top of your situations.

I want you say to yourself today, I have got my self-confidence back and I begin to living life indeed!

God Loves ♥ You

Ogundipe Clement Shola

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