TIPS TO MAKE YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WORK.

Long distance relationships have always had the stigma that they don't work. Some relationships experts disagree. "Having a successful, long distance relationship is possible," says Paul A Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating, the largest brick-and-mortar dating service in the world. "It's important that you both understand what's involved and that you're dedicated to working at communicating."

            If you're considering a long distance relationship or already in one like me, don't worry we have some tips for you, read carefully and practice them.

 - Define Your Relationship,

          You need to ask yourself as well as asking your partner what you really want. Are you ready to commit yourself? Be honest to yourself. If you are not sure of what you want, the relationship can’t work because as things get difficult, it is the definition of the relationship that will help ground the two of you. It will also help avoid heartache later because you will both know where you stand.

- Communication,

        Communication is very important in a long distance relationship.  If you can't reach each other on the phone every day, e-mail, IM and text messaging will do. When you're stuck in a meeting halfway across the world, it's always heartwarming to receive a loving text message from your sweetheart. Set aside a certain time, every day, to connect with each other.

- Be Honest,

        This is very important, and I don't just mean disclosing the superficial things (like where he was when you called and he didn't answer). You must be willing to discuss more sensitive issues, too, like your sex life. If this relationship is to really hold its ground, talking openly and honestly about your sexual needs is one of the biggest keys to success. Generally speaking, communicating openly with your partner about your sex life will allow you to find out if the other person is truly committed to you physically as well as personally. It is not an easy subject to broach, but it can be very revealing in terms of how much the two of you are willing to disclose for the sake of your love

- Exercise Patience,

         PATIENCE, exercising patience is really important in almost every aspect of all life not only relationships and one of the pitfalls of a long-distance relationship is waiting. I recommend that you find things to do to occupy your time. If your career, children or school do not keep you busy enough, get involved in some other activities. The key is to avoid weighing down your long-distance conversations with whining or unrealistic demands, solely because you are bored or missing the other person.

- Give Encouragement,

         This one is also very important. I am currently in a wonderful long-distance relationship, and this aspect of it has made it so much more special. I make it a habit to always ask how things are going with school, work or family and then proceed to encourage her where she needs to be encouraged. Encourage and assist each other in every aspect. Give her a reason to confide in you. It's also a good idea to "smile over the phone" as much as possible. A good mood from you on days when your partner may be feeling especially needy can make both of you feel better.

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