You Are You!
"Don't be afraid to be unique or speak your mind, because
that's what makes you different from everyone else."
---Dave Thomas
---Dave Thomas
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s
life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other
people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own
inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and
intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else
is secondary.
--- Steve Jobs
--- Steve Jobs
I
have few simple but liberating questions for you today, if you are able to find
a sincere answer to it, your life will start to experience immediate, positive
and great change. Your life will take a new course and you will live to
appreciate your life more.
My
simple questions for you that you need to ask yourself now and every time and
be really sincere with yourself are: Who
am I ? What makes me unique and different from others? Is it ideal for me to
compare myself to others? How do I manage my feelings when I do, positively or
negatively? Is there anyone exactly like me? If not, how do I use my uniqueness
to stay relevant? If I do not celebrate myself, would anybody do?
It
is really a sorry situation that most people stay obscure and live a life of
unhappiness, when they are designed for great things and to have joy and unlimited happiness. Life is whatever name you give to it, and it will never
disappoint you by answering to another name you never gave to it. Life is good
when we call it good because that’s what it will display to you and if you call
it bad or any ugly name, you will definitely have it displayed to you as bad.
Let’s
consider these simple questions that I believe would liberate you from
obscurity, depression, low-self esteem, self-destruct, in-appreciation for the
life you have and YOU in particular. I see a super-YOU evolving after getting
sincere answers to all of these questions and having a determined spirit to use
these answer to re-invent you and claim the life you desire and deserve, that you have for long refused, rejected and
unwilling to claim because your eyes is so closed to your uniqueness,
originality and outstanding identity, which if actively employed and developed
could have taken you farther than where you are, make you bigger than you are
now, and unleash the greatness in you beyond your imagination.
What
makes you unique and different from others? Your uniqueness start from noting
that you speak, act, react, think, do, perceive, endure, forgive, love and so
on differently compared to others wherever you go or find yourself on the
surface of the earth. Understanding all these things, knowing and appreciating
your gift, talents and other potential you have got to succeed distinctly from
others is a good virtue to living a happy life. Other people may have like
abilities and skills as you do but can never be perfectly as yours, there is always
something positive and even negative about you that makes you standout, the
positive you must feed and make robust, the negative you must starve to death.
You are you and there is no other you before you or any other you after you!
Is
it ideal that you compare yourself to others? To an extent it is good to
compare yourself to others, if it is done to know where your own abilities,
gift and skills can speak out, so that you can display your originality and
exceptional identity. Situation where you compare yourself to others to bring
yourself down, exhibiting low-self esteem, remain obscure, depressed and
malfunction is totally not ideal for you. You must live celebrating your
uniqueness, co-existing with others and occupying your position where you are
best need, it is the key to a live of productivity and fulfillment.
How
do you manage your feeling when you compare yourself to others, positively or
negatively? Sure, you must always be
positive, always see a reason to be happy that you are just you and you can’t
be the next person to you and the person can’t be you. The mistake we all make,
is that, those people we admire, also have their short comes but not visible to
us because they are managing it well or we just don’t pay attention to it and
don’t forget that a lot of people admires you too but don’t know you do not
appreciate what you have got. Wake up friend, it is time to value, appreciate
and develop yourself more, that is all your life requires.
Is
there anyone exactly like you? If I say there is no one like you my friend, it
is not an overstatement, even your would be or children are totally different
version of you and the other parent that created them biologically. You are
Male or Female Peculiar!
How
do you use your uniqueness to stay relevant? Your uniqueness ultimately makes
you relevant; you just have to make the world see it, let the whole universe
know you exist indeed. Get that ugly picture of yourself out of your mind and
start to imagine a wonderful, blessed, rich, great, peaceful and happy you and
live it!
If
you do not celebrate yourself, would anyone do? No one would celebrate you
until you celebrate yourself and make people see reason why they must do too.
The world would carry you just the way you position yourself right before them.
Celebrate yourself and the world would not hesitate to do the same.
Stay
blessed and remain your unique you!
God
Loves ♥
You
Ogundipe
Clement Shola
shollyclem@gmail.com
www.facebook.com/ogundipe.c.shola
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