Sunday, 12 January 2014

We all need one another

We all need one another

Remember, we all stumble, every one of us.  That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand.  ---Emily Kimbrough

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. --- Bill Wilson

Today, I have decided to open your eyes and trigger your mind back to something very important and compulsorily unavoidable that you might have started to lose the  grip, on the value to your life and its significance in making you live a healthy, happy and successful life. It is nothing else than chains of people that are connected to your life and their relevance to making your life meaningful and fun-filled.

If you trace the life of Man back to the beginning of the world, you will discover that, after God had created the first man (Adam), God saw that the life of the first man would be very boring, meaningless and would not be productive. So, He created the second man (Eve –woman) to be the companion, to think together, wine and dine, quarrel to settle, device plans together, take actions, do exploits, be productive and enjoy the goodness of life in harmony.

If you check again, you will see that the ultimate reason God created both the first and second man, was to bless them to give birth to so many men to populate the Earth, to co-habit and also have a taste of what life has to offer and that’s the reason YOU and I are here on the planet today. This is because we can’t do without each other, the primary aim of God for me and you is to co-exist, make the world a better place for ourselves, lean on each other in times of despair and trouble, lift each other up when another falls and help one another to carry on by supporting each other with whatever we have at our disposal that God has blessed us with. We have not come here to rub shoulders with each other, competing and striving against fellow man is totally against the plan of God for us all. If we don’t relent from the act of wanting to push the next person to you down and thinking only you, should be celebrated, the end thereof is eternal guilt and pain (Check the story of Cain and Abel; Genesis 4:1 :15)
It is so clear that we all on Earth have likely the same ending which is death after exploring and exploiting the Earth, manifesting our individual destiny and fulfilling the divine purpose of God for our lives. If you think about the mission of man on earth very well, then you will value everyone around you, even if they despise, detest, reproach, and envy you. Sincerely, I have seen that whatever any man does to another man ends up helping directly or indirectly the man the deed was done to. This has made me to learn to cherish every man irrespective of their thoughts, attitude, and actions towards me. All you need to do is place value on every relationship you have, be it sour or sweet because the value you place on any relationship will come back to add value to your life. One thing so important, you have to find out, is how the relationship would impact your life positively and what are you ready to give into it.

There are four set of people in life that you must be prepared to co-exist with, learn from, tap from, appreciate, keep them at reasonable positions in your life and be prepared to give whatever it requires and expected wisely into the relationship. These four set of people are: (a) The ones that loves you, solidly behind you whenever you need them, and are selflessly with all they possess ready to go on with you, even when the going gets tough. (b) The second set of people is the ones who neither wants to neither support you nor kick against you. They are like ‘I mind my business group of people, I have nothing to with him/her’ and they would do everything possible never to cross your path. (c) Another set of people are the one who directly or indirectly display their utmost dislike, jealousy, envy, hatred, opposition, rejection, malice, reproach etc. towards you verbally, through facial expression and body gestures. Sometimes you know this people not by their attitude towards you but through conclusions from situations and events. (d) The last set of people are the ones you also despise, rubbish, dislike, envy, reproach, scared of their success, backbite, oppress, antagonize and many more of silly evil act you allow to have a place in you due to your ignorance and foolishness, if I may say.

At this juncture, I would boldly say to you that all these sets of people have a great role to play in your life and everything concerning you. They have been placed in your life by the universal forces to justify your journey on Earth and the outcome of this special life that you carry. Everyone you come across in your life are very important to the course of your life, I will make you agree by seeing it this way, that your path shouldn't have ever crossed another if not for a reason, maybe, just to admire you or you admire them and leave a thought in each other’s mind. I have seen some people and the only thing that sprang up from my mind was giving thanks for my precious simple life because I saw myself having a better, healthy and promising life in my own reasoning compared to who I saw, not because I like the situation of the person but it brought me back to the state of consciousness, realizing the potential, blessings and the grace of God in my life. Though we may never see again, but the experience would always motivate me to cherish my life whenever the thought of that person is displayed again on the screen of my heart. 

Every individual you come across have a tangible role to play in your life and this you have to appreciate and accept. Some are in your life to act as fire at a very high temperature to heat the best out of you to come out like gold, some would only water and trim you like the gardeners does to the flowers, another are now in your life to deforest you but with the grace of God, you will again sprout out again and grow big with branches to become infallible. Some would like to dump refuse in your life but if they never did you will never realize you have got some mess in your life already that you need to clear and by gaining back your senses because they did so, therefore you clean all the mess in your life altogether and it becomes sparkling clean. A lot would also use you to their selfish interest, exploiting you as much as they can but relax you are gaining knowledge and experience to activate your unexpected success and breakthrough.

My dear friend, we all need people and everyone that we come across as we journey on the surface of the Earth but your attitude and your deduction from your experience with them and how you utilize what you learnt from situations with them is the most important to making your life better every now and then.

We would continue on this topic next week, I really appreciate you for reading and making use of my simple messages to you. I must sincerely confess that I need you to continue reading because you the reason why I sit in front of computer screen and start to type, you are immeasurably special.

God Loves ♥ You
Ogundipe Clement Shola
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